Find your people

Join events and meet people in an inclusive community

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How it works

Introduce yourself

Select from 100 gender identities, tailor your interests and connection preferences, and find people who will embrace the real you

Pick an event that fits your scene

Alternative speed dating, connection workshops, festivals, BDSM parties, polyamory/queer/kink community bar and park meetups, virtual events, and more

Meet new people

Join an event chat to meet the community before you go
Become Buds with people before you go to chat 1:1

No more missed connections

Find and stay in touch with the people you meet at events

Stay updated on events and happenings

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Build your community on Bloom

See what organizers have to say about us

Building community is very important to me and Bloom helped me do that in a way I wouldn't be able to find anywhere else. Plus, the Bloom Team is responsive and professional - they were able to get my concerts into the system quickly so attendees could meet each other and connect.

Rachel Lark,

As an event producer we couldn’t ask for more in a collaboration. It was a win/win/win all around. As a community based in creating connections Bloom was a perfect fit for our participants.

Misha Bonaventura,
Bonobo Network

Our recent partnership with Bloom has added a new dimension to our events. Not only does Bloom increase the peer-driven awareness of the events, it creates a sense of community and belonging. We love the new level of sharing and interactivity that Bloom provides.

Cal Callahan,
Leather & LGBTQ Cultural District

freeQ is thrilled to partner with Bloom to build sex-positive community connections! freeQ offers a safer tech online venue so we can host LGBTQ+ and sex-positive people all over the world in our virtual video space at freeQ's audiences love having more opportunities to connect via Bloom! Y'all rock!

Sarah Massey,

Community values


We always practice affirmative consent, which means asking before escalating intimacy and actively listening to each response.

Act only on a clear and enthusiastic "yes!" (with an exclamation point). Anything short of that is not consent.


We clearly express our interests and boundaries, which creates a shared space to connect and play.


We treat people with respect. We honor each other's boundaries, diversity, and time.

Polyamorous, kinky, enby, queer? You are welcome here


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