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94th BDSM Social

The 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is one of San Diego's oldest running BDSM munches. This is a non-partisan event and holds no affiliation with any group or organization. Everyone 21+ is welcome, venue staff will ask for a valid ID.

Started in 1997, the 94th Aero Squadron BDSM Social is a monthly social gathering, in a public venue, of people interested in BDSM.

Come make new friends, catch up with old ones, participate in our opportunity drawing for a variety of BDSM themed prizes, all while enjoying cocktails & tasty food from one of San Diego’s most unique dining establishments.

Our friends at 94th are extending their hours just for us each 3rd Wednesday of the month, the restaurant will be closing at 9:30pm, and we'll vamoose before 10pm.

FAQ

When is it?

The 3rd Wednesday of every month, rain or shine.

7:00 PM to 9:30 PM

Where is it?

94th Aero Squadron Restaurant

8885 Balboa Avenue, San Diego, CA 92123

Back Patio

Once inside the restaurant, turn left at the host desk and walk through the bar to the back lounge/patio.

Ask the host desk for the internet group if you can’t find us.

There is an area for smokers, as well as a fire pit.

How much does it cost?

This is a free event, however, we ask you to please support the restaurant by purchasing food and drink during our event.

Please order only from the back patio/lounge bar, as the main bar serves the entire restaurant. Our bartender Nate takes great care of us and is provided especially for our event!

Don’t forget to thank and tip the staff!

Attire and Conduct

We meet in a public restaurant that will also be serving the public during our event. Please be mindful of your choice of attire and refrain from any play that you would avoid in any other public setting.

Miss Annie is working to establish and maintain a safer space. Kindness is required.

No bullying or hate speech.

No anti-vanilla rhetoric.

No gatekeeping or kink-shaming.

No personal attacks.

No bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobic or other harmful rhetoric is not welcome and will not be tolerated.

Do not touch or hug anyone without their consent.

Known abusers are not welcome.

If you have concerns about another attendee or any of the above, please see Miss Annie immediately at the event or contact via email at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

New?

If you’re new/nervous/feeling unsure, come back to the prize table on the patio and say hi to our host, Miss Annie. She’ll introduce you to a few folks and answer any questions you might have. (She’s a six foot tall, loud, colorful redhead, you can’t miss her!)

We gratefully accept your handcrafted toys and secondhand kink implements for a new life on the prize table, with complimentary tickets given for every donation.

In an effort to support our local sex positive businesses, we now have sponsorship opportunities.

If you have questions about the event or donations & sponsorships, please feel free to email me at 94thBDSMsocial@gmail.com

Thank you so much!

Miss Annie (@ThatMissAnnie)