The Bloom Community App was made by and for sex positive people. Our community embraces the sex positive values of consent, communication, and respect, and celebrates all the possibilities of sex positive connection.
Bloom Community aims to be the safest virtual space for folks marginalized from conventional dating culture, which is still largely unaccepting of sex. Our open-minded community of queer, poly kinksters is the best place to find folks who share your sex positive values.
Many of our event partners serve the BDSM and kink community. From parties at Black Thorn and Catalyst to community gatherings at Folsom Street and Wicked Grounds, we collaborate with events that facilitate beautiful kinky connections.
For folks in the sex positive community, we know that relationships can easily flow between friendship, romance, kink, and sex. Here at Bloom Community, we do not prescribe or presuppose what each connection between members will become. We call connections made in Bloom "Buds" because we want to create the space for many types of connections to form organically. This leaves it up to the two (or more) consenting adults to determine what form their connection will take and what feels right to them. We encourage you to see your Buds as people first, and beyond that whatever comes authentically to you.
In line with our values, members indicate clearly what they want from the Bloom Community
Signify whether you want to be Buds and/or have romantic interest in folks you meet at events, and we'll let you know if it's mutual
Not all sex positive people or BDSM relationships look the same. Many (but not all) sex positive people also identify as queer, LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and kinky. We embrace the diversity of the sex positive community and provide members with opportunities to connect with intersectional and overlapping communities that share our sex positive values.