Sex Positive Dating

Find Lovers, Partners, and Sex Positive Friends


The Bloom Community App was made by and for sex positive people. Our community embraces the sex positive values of consent, communication, and respect, and celebrates all the possibilities of sex positive connection.

The Sex Positive Community is Here


Bloom Community aims to be the safest virtual space for folks marginalized from conventional dating culture, which is still largely unaccepting of sex. Our open-minded community of queer, poly kinksters is the best place to find folks who share your sex positive values.

Develop Budding Sex Positive Relationships


For folks in the sex positive community, we know that relationships can easily flow between friendship, romance, kink, and sex. Here at Bloom Community, we do not prescribe or presuppose what each connection between members will become. We call connections made in Bloom "Buds" because we want to create the space for many types of connections to form organically. This leaves it up to the two (or more) consenting adults to determine what form their connection will take and what feels right to them. We encourage you to see your Buds as people first, and beyond that whatever comes authentically to you.

In line with our values, members indicate clearly what they want from the Bloom Community

Select what you're looking for

It can be as many or as few of these options as you want!

Customize specificity

Don't feel restricted by our labels! Tell folks exactly what you mean to whatever extent you'd like

Become Buds!

See what others are looking for and Bud them accordingly

Direct communication
Respect for all preferences

Signify whether you want to be Buds and/or have romantic interest in folks you meet at events, and we'll let you know if it's mutual

Indicate your interest

Toggle options for "Buds" and "Romantic interest" allow for various types of connections

We'll send a message

You'll be connected in Bloom with folks who have shared mutual interest

Get connected

Take your new connection wherever it leads!

Mutual opt-in
Clear communication

Explore Intersectional Identities


Not all sex positive people or BDSM relationships look the same. Many (but not all) sex positive people also identify as queer, LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and kinky. We embrace the diversity of the sex positive community and provide members with opportunities to connect with intersectional and overlapping communities that share our sex positive values.